Для начала я хотела бы поблагодарить 606 женщин (плюс горсточку мужчин), которые поделились со мной собственными мыслями, историями и разрешили включить их в эту книгу. Боди-имидж – тема личная и непростая. И я безмерно благодарна вам за щедрость, откровенность, ранимость, ум и проницательность.
Я также хотела бы поблагодарить экспертов и профессионалов, которые поделились со мной результатами своих исследований: д.м.н. Рене Энгельн, к.м.н. Силью Вокс, к.м.н. Гейл Дайнс, магистра Эвелин Трибол, Эштона Эпплуайта, Каролину Дунер, к.м.н. Мидж Уилсон, д.м.н. Лекси Кайт, д.м.н. Линдсея Кайта, к.м.н. Роберто Оливардиа, Эмму Сандерс и Кесли Миллер. Ваша мудрость стала основой этой книги.
Кейтлин Кетчум, спасибо, что поверила в эту книгу, за понимание всего масштаба и за то, что помогла этому произойти. Я не могу представить для этой книги лучшего партнера, чем ты.
Линдсей Эджкомб, спасибо за то, что направляла, за силу и за то, что всегда прикрывала тыл.
Марина Эсмеральдо, Эмма Кэмпион и Лиза Феркель, спасибо за огромный труд и чудесный дизайн книги.
И Бен, спасибо! За любовь, спокойный оптимизм, подбадривание; за то, что помог привести в порядок мой беспокойный писательский ум; за бесконечные вечера, которые мы провели, рассуждая об идеалах тела, месседжах, которые нам отправляют сми, и практиках удаления волос. Спасибо!
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